2. Using Your Attorney as a Therapist
3. Spending $10,000 to get $1,000
4. Taking a Laissez Faire Approach to Your Case
5. Refusing to Mediate
6. Demonizing Your Ex
7. Jumping into a Rebound Relationship
While I must admit that the article is very professionally written and make a lot of human sense, I am just so troubled by it.
Why? I just feel that discussion on divorce is a self fulfilling thing. The more we talk and think about it, the probability of it happening increases accordingly.
In our group, we literally ban the D word from the vocab of all the couples that came across our paths. There are many words that are banned in a marriage relationship but the highest in the list is definitely the D word.
I'd rather be focusing on the 1000 things that you must do to ensure a fulfilling, satisfying and happy lifelong partnership.
In any event, divorce should never be an option as a start. That's why we should do our very best to go into a marriage relationship prepared.
